Sunday, 28 October 2012

SEX ON UNIVERSITY CAMPUSES


Dr. Agrippa Khathide

The allegations that some university campuses are used to hold striptease shows, pornographic movies and even brothel activities during weekend nights should not come as a surprise especially to people who interact with the students especially at tertiary level.

The painful part of the saga is that most of those students are being sustained by the meager salaries of their poor parents.  The reason often offered for being involved in sex work activities is lack of money.  My worry is whether poverty can be used to justify immoral behaviour.  There are so many people, old and young, who live in abject poverty but who refuse to betray their values and dignity.

It could be that students who engage themselves in sex-work activities may no be in dire need but just want to cash in on a quick buck for their envisaged life of luxury other than their basic necessities.  In order to maintain this lifestyle, poor parents are meant to pay through their nose.  A story is told of a learner where I live who told his mother that he needed money to buy a “photosynthesis”.  Because of ignorance, the poor parent had no choice but to pay the required amount.

 As parents we cannot remain unconcerned by this state of affairs.  Institutions of higher learning are meant to produce leaders of our society.  If the rot is not stopped there we cannot hope to have a stable society.

 But it would be hypocritical to say some of this questionable behavior by students is new. The difference is that modern students have become more daring and aggressive in what they do more so if it touches on morality.

 A member of the SRC from one of the institutions gave a call pleading with me if I could visit their campus because their student body was sinking under the yoke of immoral behaviour.  He said that as many as 50% of their student body is HIV positive.  Obviously I could not independently verify those statistics.  But undoubtedly this should sound an alarm to all those who are concerned not only with the moral life of younger people but of the nation as a whole.  The investment of government on each university student is sufficient to jolt society into immediate action to salvage our students on various institutions.

 One would hope that students at the higher institutions of learning would be intellectually independent enough to stand their ground and make decisions that would benefit country and society as a whole.  But away from the watchful eye of parents, some students decide to be influenced and swayed mob thinking only to regret it later on in life.

 The life of a booze, zol and jol may be attractive to those who are new to campus life but at the end it does not carry one anywhere.  It leads to the route of self-destruction.

 There is nothing that makes sex more interesting if it is done on a campus.  Actually, it may leave a person with permanent scars.  I am reminded of the words of Richard Forster who says, “sex is like a great river that is rich and deep and good as long is it stays within its proper channel”.  

This post was originally written by Dr. Agrippa Khathide who is also a pastor of one of the oldest church in South Africa - the Apostolic Faith Mission.

ON THE HIGH PLACES

                                                   EXHORTATION DEDICATED TO MF 2012 TEAM


The Strong determined ibex (wild goat) scales the steepest cliffs with speed and agility, nimbly leaping up the sheer face of the rocks. Found throughout the wilderness, the ibex symbolised beauty to the people of ancient times.
It is not uncommon to see herds of graceful ibex scale and descend more than twenty mountains a day. The ibex can use only a small crack in the sheerest cliff as a foothold to leap two or three yards.



wild goat

Usually travelling in herds of thirty or more, the ibex feed on the leaves of small bushes and trees scantily dotting the mountaintops. Upon the approach of an enemy or intruding predator, the ibex will leap quickly up the side of the cliff to higher ground.


The writer of 2 Samuel 22:33-34 draws from the agility of the ibex to describe the power of God: “God is my strength and power, and He makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of [ibex], and sets me on my high places.”

This exhortation is dedicated to my current Midrand Flame (MF) team who are enduring unnecessary nagative criticisms from one of their lecturers for the good work they did with the last colour edition of MF. I know that the negative criticisms are tearing you down slowly, but do not be heart-broken. I believe in you and in your journalistic skills. I also believe in your future, and I know that your tomorrow is very bright.

Remember that God makes us like the ibex. When faced with a colossal problem in our daily endeavour, we can climb over it. Straight up with grace and agility, we can leap over criticisms even with the smallest footholds. Then we can stand on the high places.

When faced with a mountain, remember the ibex. Do not quit! Climb over

Saturday, 27 October 2012

ETHICS OF LOVE


The well known Judeo-Christian principle of loving one’s neighbour is also found in similar forms in Islamic and Chinese tenets. In media ethical scholarship, love-based ethics have been developed around central concepts of nurturing, caring, affection, empathy and inclusiveness. The greatest of them all is love.
The Ten Commandments of the Old Testament constitute one of the main areas where Christians look for God’s will. What people should do (i.e. what is ethical) is contained in the commandments, and, provided people follow them, they behave ethically.

Judeo-Christian books of life
For journalists, applying the ethics of love, or taking care of people, implies that he or she should provide news that is timely, reliable, undistorted, accurate, understandable and captivating because this will show the ethical standpoints of such media worker.

            The basics
In terms of ethics of love, journalists are supposed to show empathy when there is tragedy. They should not treat the victims as another human story the public must read.

If journalists can embrace the ethics of love, it would therefore become mandatory for them to demonstrate some level of care in terms of tragedy, and how they report their stories as a sign of duty to the public.
One would say ethics of care is especially appropriate in those times when journalists deal with disaster, suffering and pain. Unfortunately, the mantra of journalistic objectivity and independence sometimes harden into callous attitudes, where journalists do not allow themselves to empathise with victims of disease, crime or trauma.


Show your humanity to victims of tragedy

Ethics of care would allow journalists to not see compassion, engagement and sympathy as flaw in their professional make-up, but in fact as the appropriate and best ethical response when confronted with the pain of those they report about. I would say that being a good reporter is not being emptied of humanity.

In a country such as South Africa, with more than average share of trauma, an ethics of care may lead journalists to extend their social responsibility beyond the enumeration of the statistics of poverty, the political debates around HIV/AIDS or the horror stories of crime to delve deeper and provide contextually relevant stories that open up possibilities for greater understanding and compassionate action.


Show some love on your next beat
 
I would like to distinguish between ‘pity,’ associated with condescension, and ‘compassion,’ which refers to the desire to relive another’s suffering by supplying what they need. Compassion can be considered the emotion associated with an ethics of care that sees the media’s role as one of engagement rather than distance and detachment; a lack of compassion can be ‘at the heart of some of the more unsavoury journalistic practices like ambush interviews and pack journalism.

Pity, on the other hand, even when sincere, can construct a kind of spectatorship suffering that merely confronts audiences with images of distant hunger, disease and death – without enabling them to do anything about it”.

Such simplistic reporting leads at best to a kind of ‘compassion fatigue,’ and at worst at a kind of voyeurism which makes it acceptable and even predictable for audiences to consume images and narratives of a suffering ‘other’.  Audiences are then turned into morally ambivalent or neutral spectators, with no moral compulsion to imagine themselves in a relationship of care and responsibility towards another.

 

Ethics of love and care protects the individual rights and interests based on shared virtues. Ethical responsibility of journalist in this case would be concerned primarily on how the media can build, heal, and protect rather than attack. This is what we need in our beloved country, the ethics of love and care. It will go a long way to heal our racial wounds, and there will be smile on our faces again.

Friday, 26 October 2012

GOOD OLD DAYS

UJ Journalism class of 2010/11


YOU ARE THE BEST

FIGHTING TEMPTATION





                                        Reasons why you should not be homo....


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huh huh huh
 
 
Thou shall not touch
 
 
wild cat

 
Adam's fruits
 
 
Passion of lust
 
 
THE WORLD IS FULL OF MANY BEAUTIFUL CHICKS
 
THEY CAME IS DIFFERENT SIZES AND SHAPES, BUT
 
IF YOU ARE TAKEN
 
YOU NEED TO RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
 
FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
 
YOU ARE WARNED, BUT THE CHOICE IS YOURS.

Thursday, 25 October 2012

CONFUSED MIND

 
 
 
 
 
 
I AM CONFUSED

 
I AM NOT SURE IF THIS IS LOVE OR LUST?


I NEED HELP!!!

 
WHAT MUST I DO?


NEED TO RUN FROM TEMPTATION
 
 
 PLEASE ADVISE.






Thursday, 18 October 2012

NO PROBLEM WAS TOO BIG FOR GOD

In my quiet time this morning I read the book of 1Samuel 16 & 17. It was an account of David and Goliath. Every day the Israelites and Philistines lined up for battle, Goliath stepped forward. He issued a challenge to fight, one on one, with any Isrealite brave enough to face him. No one, not even the king's best warriors, dared to step out.

No one, that is, until a small shephered boy heard the giant's mockery of the living God, his tremendous love for God stirred him to action. David knew that no problem was too big for God. In his total faith, this small boy refused the kings's armour and marched staright down to face the armour - clad- giant. With only a tiny stone from the brook of Elah and his stringshot, David defeated the Goliath in the name of the Lord.


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Recent archaeological excavations near the valley of Elah shown on 'Dicovery channel' have revealed Philistine burial sites. Many Philistine skeletons have measured as large six to seven feet tall. Although there is no way of knowing Goliath's exact height, estimates place him between seven and nine feet. Wao! that's  huge and scary in reality. But David defeated him with God's ability, not with his own strenght.

I was encouregd after reading this account in the book of Samuel, and I am convinced that I can also conquer my individual challenges, even if they are as big and scary as Goliath. I can overcome!

 If you are reading this post, I want you to know that with God's ability, you too can conquer you seemingly impossible problems. Like giants that would mock God and frighten us, these problems are not as insurmountable. For God is larger and stronger than our challenges. In John 16:33, Jesus puts it this way: " In the world you have tribulation, but take courage: I have overcome the world."

You are an overcomer, stay blessed.